Return Address on Wedding Invitations: A Guide for the Modern Bride and Groom
Your wedding invitations are more than just an RSVP card; they're a sneak peek into your special day's theme and a reflection of your personal style as a couple. One often overlooked detail is the return address. Here's a comprehensive guide on how to handle this essential element, ensuring it complements your invitations and adheres to etiquette.
Why Include a Return Address?
Including a return address on your wedding invitations serves multiple purposes. Firstly, it's a courtesy to your guests, making it easy for them to send their responses and gifts. Secondly, it provides an opportunity to showcase your unique style and give a hint about your wedding's theme. Lastly, it helps manage your mail post-wedding, ensuring important cards and gifts reach you.
Who Should the Return Address Be From?
The return address should reflect who is hosting the wedding. Traditionally, this is the bride's parents. However, modern weddings often have varied hosting arrangements. If you're paying for the wedding yourselves, you can simply use your names. If both sets of parents are contributing, you can use both sets of names. Here are a few examples:
- Mr. and Mrs. John Doe
- Together with their parents, Mr. and Mrs. John Doe and Mr. and Mrs. Jane Smith
- John Doe and Jane Smith
Where to Place the Return Address
The return address typically goes on the back flap of the envelope, aligned left and about 1/4 inch from the bottom. If your envelope is without a back flap, place it on the front, centered and about 1/4 inch from the bottom. Here's a simple way to remember: "Left for back, center for front".
What to Include in the Return Address
Your return address should include your names (or the hosts'), your street address, city, state, and zip code. You can also include your phone number or email address if you'd like guests to have multiple ways to reach you. Here's a simple format:
| Mr. and Mrs. John Doe |
|---|
| 123 Main Street |
| Anytown, Anystate 12345 |
| (123) 456-7890 |
| johndoe@example.com |
Making the Return Address Match Your Invitations
Your return address can be as simple or as elaborate as your invitations. If you're using calligraphy or a specific font, consider carrying that over to your return address. You can also use a monogram or a small symbol that ties into your wedding theme. Here are a few ideas:
- Use a different color ink for the return address to match your invitation suite.
- Add a small illustration or symbol that ties into your wedding theme.
- Use a monogram or a special font to make it unique.
Remember, the return address is a small but important detail that can enhance your wedding invitations and set the tone for your special day. Don't overlook it, and have fun making it your own!
