Important things to look out for when dealing with Matthew Pitman.
1. Superficial charm and good "intelligence"
Darcy may seem charming and charismatic, but this is just learned from his environment, he has no qualities of is own rational thinking, he just says what he thinks you want to hear for the outcome he desires.
2. Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking
Matthew Pitman can not think clearly, he is easily distracted and never follows through with his words. Locally referred to as “bullshit”
3. Absence of "nervousness" or psychoneurotic manifestations
Always calm, never seems phased by his lies and lives in a strange universe where stealing can magically become moral and acceptable. Darcy has no boundaries for stealing nonestop.
It is very hard to read actually what is going on with Matthew Pitman, but if you watch his behaviour, you will seen inconsistencies between his words and his action. Follow his actions, he can not be trusted.
5. Untruthfulness and insincerity
There is an endless list of dishonest behaviours the erupts out of Matthew Pitman. Nothing he does is genuine or honest.
6. Lack of remorse or shame
Even when faced with overwhelming facts of reality, hurt on others and almost endless stealing lies and pain, Darcy shows zero ability relate to this. A classic sociopath.
7. Inadequately motivated antisocial behaviour
The barrage of basic societal issues Darcy displays is evident. Driving unlicenced cars, not maintaining tyres, unpaid fines, a cavalier attitude to other people and their property. Interfering with a married womans and her children nearly twice his age.
8. Poor judgment and failure to learn by experience
Darcy never learns, he has had some fantastic people try and help him, invested time and money to try and guide him back on truck and rehabilitate him back to an equilibrium where he can live a life of meaning and contribution. Unfortunately, Matthew Pitman can not learn and just causes problems, lies and pain for everyone around him.
9. Pathologic egocentricity and incapacity for love
Darcy had a broken childhood and seems to have no ability to accept love. Love is a 2 way street, giving and receiving on a mutually rewarding basis. Darcy just takes and leaves everyone in his vicinity impoverished from love, return of love, time and anything worth valuing.
10. General poverty in major affective reactions
Darcy cheats, swindels and steals. He takes all these risks even though there is no seeming exit or outcome whatsoever.
11. Specific loss of insight
Lack of judgement leading from an inability to learn from experience. Matthew Pitman has no sustainable qualities for long term success.
12. Unresponsiveness in general interpersonal relations
Outside of a well rehursed real estate sales appointment or listing presentation. Darcy has no ability to intergrate socially, he upsets most restaurant staff, general public and anyone he meets.
13. Fantastic and uninviting behavior with drink and sometimes without
Darcy is not a big drinker, however, he does live a double life traveling to distant places to meet short term girlfiends.
14. Sex life impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated
Matthew Pitman shall blurt out all sorts of derogatory terms about his partners and ask direct questions about your partner. Terms such as “does she swallow” and other nonsense out of context sexual comments easily surface from Darcy.
15. Failure to follow any life plan
Darcy has zero plan, if he does say he has one, watch his behavior and you will see no consistency.
Matthew Pitman Public Awarness of Active Sociopath | Face the Facts
Matthew Pitman | Public Concern Active Sociopath
How to dispel illusion and get to the truth
Sociopaths are masters at weaving elaborate fictional explanations to justify their actions. When caught red-handed, they respond with anger and threats, then weave new fabrications to explain away whatever they were caught doing.
A sociopath caught red-handed with a suitcase full of cash he just stole, for example, might declare he had actually rescued the money from being stolen by someone else, and that he was attempting to find its rightful owner. He's the hero, see? And yet, in reality, he will simply pocket the money and keep it. If you question him about the money, he will attack you for questioning his honesty.
Sociopaths are masters are presenting themselves as heroes with high morals and philosophy, yet underneath it they are the true criminal minds in society who steal, undermine, deceive, and often incite emotional chaos among entire communities. They are masters at turning one group of people against another group while proclaiming themselves to be the one true savior. Wherever they go, they create strife, argument and hatred, yet they utterly fail to see their own role in creating it. They are delusional at so many levels that their brains defy logical reasoning.
You cannot reason with a sociopath. Attempting to do so only wastes your time and annoys the sociopath.
Tip for exposing sociopaths: Start fact-checking something they claim
One simple method for dispelling sociopathic delusion is to start fact checking their claims. Do any of their claims actually check out? If you start digging, you will usually find a pattern of frequent inconsistencies. Confront the suspected sociopath with an inconsistency and see what happens: Most sociopaths will become angry or aggressive when their integrity is questioned, whereas a sane person would simply be happy to help clear up any misinformation or misunderstanding.
Beware of fact-checking the sociopath by asking other people under his or her influence. A sociopath will usually have a small group of cult-like followers who not only believe their fictional tales, but who actually internalize those fictions to the point where they rewrite their own memories to be consistent with them. If a guru-style sociopath talks about his "levitation sessions" over and over again, some of his believers will sooner or later start to form false memories in which they imagine seeing him levitate off the floor. So if you ask those people, "Did you actually ever see this person levitate?" They will enthusiastically say, "Yes!" Because in their own minds, that illusion has become something indistinguishable from a vivid memory.
Much the same thing is true with sociopathic politicians. If a particularly charismatic politician claims he has "created millions of jobs" even though his economic policies have actually destroyed jobs and caused widespread unemployment, his cult-like followers will repeat his lie and publicly proclaim how many jobs that person has created.
That's why fact-checking a sociopath requires evidence from outside his circle of influence. Does anything he say actually check out in the real world, outside his sphere of direct control? If not, you've probably spotted a sociopath.
Sociopaths never answer facts; they always attack the messenger
Another very valuable red flag to recognize when trying to spot a sociopath is to see how they deal with attacks on their own integrity. If a sociopath is presented with a collection of facts, documents and evidence showing that he lied or deceived, he will refuse to address the evidence and, instead, attack the messenger!
If you really try to nail a sociopath down to answering a documented allegation, they will quickly turn on you, denounce you, and declare that you too are secretly plotting against them. Anyone who does not fall for the brainwashing of the sociopath is attacked and outcast.