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By Deborah

Ever found yourself scratching your head over the difference between "this" and "that"? You're not alone. These two words are often used interchangeably, but they have distinct purposes in English grammar. In this article, we'll delve into the world of "this" and "that", exploring their differences, uses, and even some common misconceptions.

a pink poster with the words, this or that questions
a pink poster with the words, this or that questions

Before we dive in, let's briefly touch on what we mean by "this" and "that". Both are demonstrative determiners, a type of adjective that indicates which noun or noun phrase we're talking about.

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208 Best This or That Questions for Kids - Fun for Home or School - Fall Activities for Kids

Understanding "This" and "That"

"This" and "that" are used to point out something specific, but they do so in slightly different ways. The main difference lies in their proximity to the speaker and the listener, as well as their grammatical functions.

This Or That?
This Or That?

"This" is typically used to refer to something that's close to the speaker, either in terms of physical proximity or in the context of the conversation. On the other hand, "that" is usually used to refer to something that's distant or far from the speaker, either literally or figuratively.

Proximity - Close vs. Distant

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This or That Questions to Build Relationships and Friendships - School Activities for Kids

One of the primary functions of "this" vs. "that" is to indicate proximity. When you want to draw attention to something near you, you'd use "this". For example, "This is my new phone." Here, the phone is likely within arm's reach of the speaker.

Conversely, "that" is used to point out something far away. For instance, "That's the Eiffel Tower." In this case, the Eiffel Tower is likely a long way off from the speaker.

Grammatical Function - Subject vs. Object

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a pink poster with the words this or that question on it

Another significant difference lies in their grammatical functions. "This" is often used as the subject of a sentence, while "that" is more likely to be the object. For example, "This is a great movie." Here, "this" is the subject. Comparatively, in "I prefer that one," "that" is the object of the preposition "that".

However, this isn't a hard and fast rule. Both "this" and "that" can be used as either subjects or objects, depending on the context. The primary distinction is based on proximity, as we've seen earlier.

Using "This" and "That" in Different Contexts

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a poster with the words, 350 creative questions to play with anyone on it's back

Now that we've established the basic differences between "this" and "that", let's explore how they're used in various contexts.

Remember, regardless of whether you're using "this" or "that", the primary consideration is always the proximity to the speaker. This can change depending on the context.

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In Formal Writing

In formal writing, "that" is often used instead of "this", even when referring to something close by. This is because formal writing is usually more objective and detached, mirroring the "distance" created by the medium itself.

For example, in a report, you might write "It is clear that the proposal has significant merits," rather than using "this" due to the formal tone.

In Conversations

In conversations, both "this" and "that" show up frequently, with "this" being used more often as people naturally tend to refer to things close to them. For instance, "This is my cat, Whiskers," or "That's a great book you've got there; what's it about?"

However, remember that both "this" and "that" can be used interchangeably when emphasizing certain aspects. For example, "That's the very book I was telling you about earlier." Here, "that" is used to highlight the book's significance in the conversation.

So, the next time you're trying to decide between "this" and "that", just ask yourself: "Am I talking about something near or far?" The answer will guide you to the right choice every time. Happy communicating!