This page will link my original website which has all the details of what happened on it. The people involved, the documents, everything - but I am going to wait until after my book has been published.
For now, I am just going post a little about me here instead, so people can understand that this can happen to anyone.
I am just your average, typical guy. I grew up in the Midwest, with a \"Leave-it-to-Beaver\" family - one younger sister and one older brother. I grew up in a middle class household in the suburbs of Grand Rapids, MI - Kentwood to be exact.
I went to Ferris State College where I received a BS degree in TIS and an AAS in Accounting.
I grew up playing sports - baseball, basketball, football, tennis, golf, bowling and raquetball.
I was pretty good at most things I tried - I had a 3.8 GPA in High School, 3.7 in College, without trying too hard, and did well in sports.
I got married just after College. Little did I know that's where my trouble would soon begin.
After 6 years of marriage, we decided to try for a child. We were blessed to have a son - Joseph Mark Paske. Little did I know that a year and a half later she would be asking me for a divorce saying she had a child hoping it would bring us together more, but instead she was unhappy.
And little did I know that three years later she would ask the Pediatrician to call in a false allegation of child sexual abuse, but when the Pediatrician would not, my ex-wife did.
And little did I know that an unjust sytem and a new husband would enable her to basically remove me from my son's life, and my son from my life.
Today I live in Seminole, FL. I was lucky and priveledged enough to raise two other boys - awesome \"kids\".
I have had a great job working for the local school system for the past 27+ years. I make good money, have earned a lifetime pension, get plenty of vacation, and get to go in to a very rewarding job each day.
I try to have fun. The pictures may look like I'm happy, but there is ALWAYS a hole in my heart for my first born son. And the knowledge of how I got screwed over by a vindictive ex-wife who has never apologized. The thoughts are NEVER far away.
Cheering on the Tampa Bay Lightning Hockey over the Winnipeg Jets 5-2
Valspar Golf Tournament - took the day off with a buddy of mine on Friday to watch.
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